Are you wondering what type of people you’d meet in a sex chat room?

Each one of us has our own misconceptions about the people who join sex chats. Most people who have never had a sex chat before tend to think sex chatters are lonely and looking for love in all the wrong places on the Internet. But the truth couldn’t be any further. The vast majority of people you’re going to meet in a sex chat are fun-loving, friendly, and healthy people who contribute a lot to society.

They’re going to have different preferences, that’s for sure. We all have different tastes when it comes to the food we eat, the clothes we wear, and the partners we choose. It’s no different with sex chatters. There are different types of sex chatters, and each one has their own likes and dislikes.

Vanilla Chatter

Vanilla chatters, as the name implies, prefer vanilla sex. There’s nothing wrong with that. Sometimes, when you’re sick and tired of over-the-top ice cream flavors like goat cheese and hot curry, all you really want is to settle down for some familiar, comforting vanilla. It’s the same with vanilla chatters. They’ve tried the classic and they’re sticking with the classic.

Newbie Chatter

Most of the time, newbie chatters have no idea what they’re looking for. They know they have some self-exploration to do, but they often don’t know where to begin. Newbies tend to be shy at first. When chatting with a newbie and you have a little bit more experience under your belt, it’s important to lay off the pressure and offer some valuable guidance to encourage the newbie to come out of their shell. You never know, but the newbie you’re chatting with may come with a lot of sexy surprises.

Kinky Chatter

Kinky chatters have been frequenting the sex chat rooms for a while. They’re experienced chatters and know how to make their way through a conversation to get themselves and their partners off. They’re confident and they know what they want, heading straight for the chat rooms that cater to their particular kinks and fetishes. It goes without saying that kink here is a catch-all term for your sexual preferences. A kink can be roleplaying forbidden sex scenarios, sex chatting with grandmas, or engaging in puppy play.

Hardcore Chatter

Hardcore chatters are exactly what their name says they are. They do things the hardcore way. They’ve had vanilla sex and weren’t satisfied, so they’ve taken a more adventurous route and have found their place among other intrepid souls who understand what they want. Not that there’s anything wrong with vanilla, but if hardcore is where your heart and soul urge you to go, this is where you belong. By hardcore, we mean BDSM. We mean group sex. We mean squirting, deep throating, fisting – while wrapped up in latex from head to toe and hanging upside down from a sex swing!


Some chatters are in it for more than just the app. They’re happy to have a hot sex chat with you, but they’re looking for something more. They’re looking for actual physical sex. And, in some instances, they may even be looking for some love and affection to go with it. Some of these chatters start out by trading sexy pics and videos. They could then go on to have voice and even video calls with people who want the same. If they feel a sizzling-hot connection, they may take the plunge and ask you to meet up with them for real-life sex. It goes without saying, of course, that you take all the necessary precautionary measures before you meet up with someone you’ve met over the Internet.


Understanding the different types of sex chatters can help you navigate the sex chat rooms better. But keep in mind that not everyone fits into a single category all the time. One day, someone could be feeling vanilla. The next day, they could surprise you by showing up in the kinky or even hardcore chat rooms. Our preferences in bed and in the chat rooms are fluid, and as with all things in life, it’s still best to simply go with the flow.